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Fix T81100: ccl::Node: ASan SEGV due to bad pointer

`SOCKET_OFFSETOF` was added in the initial commit {rBec51175f1fd6c91d5}
when `offsetof` [1] was not supported well enough. GCC and LLVM
support it since C++17.

Other two changes: type and size check can be done without creating
an invalid address too.

[1] https://cppreference.com/w/cpp/types/offsetof

Reviewed By: campbellbarton, brecht

Maniphest Tasks: T81100

Differential Revision: https://developer.blender.org/D9042