fix t53701 minimal changes to get it working right

Patch by Jose Geraldo Brito
Tracker 31061
It cures the stiff quad option and does not seem to harm.
Nowever the stiff quads behave strange in a ngom mesh.
I can imagine that other parts in the sofybody module may be broken by the ngon structure. Well ngons and softbodies are not relly friends:
negon wants less edges softbodies would work better if more structural edges were possible

ui glitch fix [#22667]

soft body
text label correction

soft body
disable edge collision for bezier handles
because of massive pointlessness

sofbody beziers may work nicer

adding TODO comment

would not want to wait for 'that' on every build
MS scons win32 skip calling makebsc by default

soft bodies kind of bug fixing:
After watching 2.5 from a distance,
i did review the soft body module
to match in 2.5 every thing can be animated rule.
Until now i did not realize, that, by default, every property
is 'fcurve'-able unless told to be not.
I really like it that way.
However SB code did assume some things not to be
changing after birth of the SB object.
After spending some hours with softbody.c
/* as may be read in its history */
I think most of the SB properties are ready to go.
For those that do not, some of them never will,
i did reset the flag in the RNA definitions.

There is one not completely resolved:
bending stiffness
which will work if the initial value was non zero,
because only in this case the secondary set of springs
needed is built at all.

Duh, and there a zillions of cases to test ..
please do so.

enable basic soft body object options for
soft body aware objects as there are lattices and curves
since this is foreign terrain for me .. please check