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Docs: formalize naming for generic callbacks in BKE_callbacks.h

Add a doc-string explaining the purpose of each call back and
how they should be used.

Also add a currently unused callback 'POST_FAIL' that is to be used in
cases the action fails - giving script authors, a guarantee that a
call to `pre` will always have a matching `post/post_fail` call.

- D11422: adds a callback that can use 'post_fail'.
- T88696: proposed these conventions.