Fix T74761: Reimplement vertex to face sets visibility sync
This fixes multiple issues: - Adds tag to update shading when changing vertex visibiliyt. This makes the mesh visibility update when the operator ends. - Sync vertex to face sets no longer requires the pmap, so it does not crash. (Maybe we can initialize the pmap on undo to avoid these problems in the future). - Sync vertex to face sets now works in a coherent way with the rest of visibility operations. Hide Box and Hide mask now sync the visibility changes to the face sets, so the all the operations are now getting a correct visibility state.